With Father’s Day approaching-I thought I might give a shout out to my own father! He may text and email me, however, I’m not sure he really knows how much I appreciate him! This man not only shaped my life, he formed my future. He is the influence that always said; “Make a career of what you love, be a professional so you don’t rely on anyone else to support you, and find a man who will always cherish you for being you.” He also made me change a tire, check oil and tire pressure, and learn to drive a stick shift before I was allowed to ride in any car at sixteen years old! To my Dad on Father’s Day–I love you for being hard on me, making me tough, and telling me to mold my life out of reality! I love you Dad!
Kate Chaplin is a mom! She aspires to pursue her passion for filmmaking, but is challenged by the economic demands of society. She is currently filming her dream “Ingenue”. Kate has chosen to follow her desires and be true to herself. She made the decision to maintain her values during her journey in life. Her goal is honorable and she is enacting her dreams within a timeframe that she can still afford; offering her children an education, and remaining respectful to the morals only she was able to instill in them. “Life is a journey, not a destination.” —-Ralph Waldo Emerson
Meet Kate Chaplin:
“When my oldest was born I promised her that she could be anything she wanted in this world. If she came to me at age 15 and said she wanted to be a magician I wanted to have the courage and the knowledge to say “yes, let’s learn what we need to learn to have you be the best magician you can be and make a living at it.” But I knew I could only do this if I truly gave it everything at my dream and showed them that it was worth fighting for.
Since a young age I wanted to work in film. I thought of it as the Wonderful World of OZ. I wanted to live behind the curtain where men pulled the strings. At the time I had my first daughter, I wasn’t persuing my dream of working in film. I was a stay at home and I was determined to be the best stay at home mom I could be – but I wasn’t happy. I didn’t feel whole.
Then I made a deal with my husband. I would stay at home with our children (I have two girls now) and pursue my creative dreams of writing and filmmaking. If by the time they were both in school full time and I was not making money, I would return to the standard workforce.
Over the last 7 years I have tried my hardest to balance my company, Karmic Courage Productions, and my family life. It’s a hard balance but I’ve been able to manage. In that time I’ve published 2 books (The Belief Test, The Celebration Diet), 13 short film projects, and worked on over 30 freelance film projects. None of it I can make a steady living on. The work is risky, I’ve been attached to more projects that get cancelled due to fundraising than I’ve actually worked on.
It’s now coming up on the eve of both of the girls being in full time school. I have till Fall 2013 to hope for a miracle or get ready to say goodbye.
I knew that if I looked back 50 years from now I’d regret never making a feature film. So this summer, which maybe the last big project I get to do, I’m making Ingenue. It’s a film I’ll be able to show my daughters when they ask again, “What did you want to be when you grow up?” I’ll be able to say whether I am currently working in an office cubical or flippin’ burgers that I tried, I gave it everything I had and it was worth fighting for. Fighting for your dreams is always worth it.
Odds are filmmaking and writing will never truly leave me, regardless of what happens this year. I’m sure I’ll find weekends to make something small and fun but it won’t be a career. I’d be trading in the idea of making indie feature films for earning my kids college money. And I’m okay with that because when it comes down to it, I’m a mom.
But I’m not giving up without one hell of a fight. I’m going to put my heart and soul into Ingenue this summer. I’m so excited about this project, it’s themes and story fuel me. It’s the story that’s been hiding in me since I started this journey. It’s the cornerstone of everything I’ve learned, everything I’ve fought for. It’s the perfect piece to see if I can make some kind of money in this crazy film business.
Please, if you’ve dug my work. If you like what I’ve stood for: compassion, human rights, family and strong female characters, please continue to support me. Like Ingenue’s page on facebook, donate to our campaign (ends May 22), see my films, buy the DVD’s, or write me a note.
Win, lose or draw it’s going to be an awesome year. Because of you, my kids and my family I’ve gotten this far and I truly appreciate every moment of it.”